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Thursday, October 11, 2012

Are You Serious?

Happy Thursday. Not.
 
Not to be a negative Nancy but this day hasn't been the best. But I will keep my head up and press on.
 
Now for a little fun (since today has been a lack thereof).
 
 
Its Ok Thursdays
 
 
Linking up with Amber  for Ok Thursdays:
 
It's OK...
 
:: That I want today to be over considering my boss has made me want to rip my hair out and engage in a screaming match with him::
 
:: To stick up for yourself. Don't ever let someone make you feel inferior to them::
 
::That I am completely in love with watching X Factor. Team Britney over here::
 
:: That I will be glued to the TV on Wednesday nights to watch Chicago Fire. Last night's premiere was major eye candy::
 
:: That I will forever have a soft spot for firefighters. This goes into my personal life but I'll be hush-hush about it (for now)::
 
:: That it only took me about a month to wear my red skinny jeans (picture below). Hope I'm rockin them well!::
 

 
 :: To take risks. Life is no fun without going balls to the wall with the things you want most::

:: To be excited for my upcoming reunion with my London study abroad girls::
 
:: To want to take the New York Police Department test in January::
 
:: That I will be doing some major retail therapy during my lunch break::
 
What's OK with you today?
 
 
 
 
 


Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Pinteresting Wednesdays

 




It's hump day. So glad the week is almost done. Chicago keeps getting colder day by day and I am NOT liking it. Anywho, linking up with The Vintage Apple, so let the pinning begin!

 
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This is me every year.
 
 
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Ha! Want these.

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Major drool

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I'm sayin'!

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Exactly how I feel.

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Run.

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Banksy

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Love


Tuesday, October 9, 2012

It's Almost Time...





FOR HALLOWEEN!!!

Halloween is my favorite holiday of the year and I am super excited to partake in this year's festivities. I, along with many of my friends, will be doing a bar crawl this time around. We did the same crawl last year and it was tons of fun so we decided to do it again.

One of the [obvious] reasons why I love Halloween so much is dressing up (duh!) My best friend and I always dress up and have themed costumes. We love to up the ante and come up with better, more creative/hilarious/scary costumes each year. We used to host our own Halloween parties but that was back when we were in college and living in the BEST party apartment in Chicago. No lie, we threw some legit parties. Then life happened and we graduated college, moved out, got big girl jobs, and now live in a condo building that isn't too fond of loud parties. Boo. We seriously considered contacting our old landlord to let us use the apartment for one weekend to throw our Halloween party. Ridiculous, I know.

Annnyyywaaaay...here are some pictures of our costumes throughout the years. Feel free to laugh, frown, judge, and make a "WTF" face.
 
Halloween 2008

 
 
This is me dressed up as Alice in Wonderland. However, I referred to myself as "Alicia" in Wonderland since 1. I am Mexican. 2. I do not have blonde hair. This was my "I want to dress up slutty for Halloween" phase. I was 21 and a senior in college. Completely allowed to do so. Ha.



 

This is my bff, Karla, AKA boo thang, my wife, life partner, battle buddy, partner in crime. She was dressed up as the Mad Hatter. You can't really see in the pic but her hat says 420/69. Classy, I know. She indeed was my partner in crime that night.

 
Halloween 2009
 



Absoluteley no theme here. We really couldn't decide on what to be and waited last minute to get our costumes. Per the obvious, Karla is dressed as a firefighter. I was a candy corn witch (wtf is that even supposed to be!?) I think I looked more like a scarecrow, but whatever. It was a fun Halloween nonetheless.



 Halloween 2010 (the most memorable)



Yes. That is us. I was a dinosaur (Stegosaurus, to be exact) and Karla was a flamingo. We hands down had the BEST costumes that year. I am obsessed with dinosaurs and finally made it happen that year. I ordered my costume from China (no tracking number, not a legit website) and was beyond worried that my costume would never arrive. But it did. And I rocked it.



Getting down.


No idea.

Halloween 2011

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Zombies. We had so much fun with these costumes. Again, they were last minute ideas since we were out of the country at the time, but they came out fabulous! We legitimately scared so many people that night while out at the bar crawl. This was our first time doing an actual "scary" costume and we had a blast doing so. We will definitely do more scary costumes in the future (just not this year).
 
One of my favorite pictures from that night. The girl in the middle is our best friend, Maria. She was a pretty little bumble bee that was zombie bait.
Friends at the bar crawl
 
We really got into character that night :D
 
Halloween 2012
 
All of you in bloggerland will have to tune in and see what me and Karla have planned this year. This time, we are getting our costumes made since these costumes aren't really made by companies. We are so excited to show all of our friends and perhaps win a costume contest!
 
 
What are YOU going to be for Halloween this year?!
 
 
Much love,
 
Steph <3


Monday, October 8, 2012

Weekend Recap


Mondays!
How Monday's Make Me Feel


Happy Monday to all in bloggerland! Well, as happy as you can be on a Monday. I myself am battling my fist cold of the season and am going through Kleenex boxes like you wouldn't even believe. I might break a record at work today and go through 2 boxes.  

Digressing...


Weekend Recap:

Saturday: As I mentioned on Friday's post, I had "big things" happening on Saturday, and indeed, big things were done. I am in the process of testing with police departments throughout the Chicagoland area and Saturday's test was my second one. It was only the physical agility test (which I am proud to report that I passed. Woo!) and will have to take the department's written test this coming Saturday. I will be studying my sick booty off all this week and crossing my fingers that I do well enough to land an interview (they are only taking the first 20 people who do well on the test. Eeeek!).

Saturday evening was spent having sushi with my gal pals, Maria, Liz & Chloe. The last time I had sushi was in August 2011 and let's just say that I will [probably] not be having sushi again for a verryyyy long time. Don't get me wrong, I love sushi, but my insides can't seem to handle it. I felt like a beached whale after dinner and that's just no way to spend a Saturday night.

Sunday: As I also mentioned on Friday's post, I was supposed to volunteer at the Bank of America Chicago Marathon. Well, that didn't happen. I woke up with a terrible cold and just couldn't stomach going in at 5 am and being in the cold for nearly 10 hours. Instead, I spent my day at my parent's house watching the Kardashisans with a box of kleenex. What a joy.

Here's to hoping I kick this cold relatively soon and get back to my usual routine. I'm already tired of the niagra falls of snot coming out of my nose. Classy, I know.

And now, linking up with Meg for Mingle Monday:


LIFE OF MEG
What is the fall fashion trend you are most excited to try out?

I am most excited to add some color to my wardrobe (since I usually tend to stick with blacks and greys) with some colored skinny jeans. Also, I want to rock some oversized sweaters with some leggings and killer boots (preferably some Tory Burch boots hehe).


 
 Hope everyone had a fabulous weekend!

Besos,

Steph.



 
 

Friday, October 5, 2012

Endometri-whata?


Exactly :)


Endometriosis


This is why I originally started my blog back in June. I will save the reiteration from my previous posts, but I wanted to take some time and actually write about this disease. 

For starters, Endometriosis occurs when cells from the lining of the womb (uterus) grow in other areas of the body. This can lead to pain, irregular bleeding, and problems getting pregnant. This is what I have. 

I was officially diagnosed with this monster of a disease on June 4th, 2012 after having a laparoscopy. I spent two days in the hospital (turned out to be a longer surgery than originally expected) and my life (and health) have changed ever since. 

I'd like to point out that in no way am I writing this to gain any sympathy or pity from readers. My purpose for writing about this is to not only tell my story, but to inform women about this disease, and to reach out to my fellow Endo sisters. Every woman that has Endo has their own story, their own symptoms, and their own struggle. This is my story. 

The name of my blog, "Get It Together, Woman," came from one of my best friends, Vanessa. After I had my surgery, she was there rooting me on to get better and would always say to me, "get your shit together, woman." I obviously omitted a certain word and made it a little more reader friendly (hehehe). Anyway, that phrase stuck with me through out my entire recovery period. Vanessa was pretty much telling me to not let this horrible disease beat me. I had to figure out how I was going to continue living my life, while accepting that I would forever have a chronic debilitating disease. When you really think about, women always have so much going on in their lives. We are "supposed" to juggle everything at once and make it look like everything is ok. Well, sometimes life throws a million curve balls at you and they hit you...HARD. What I had to do was get my shit together (excuse my French) And that's what I've been doing for the past four months. 

I was offered countless of treatment options after my surgery. Which one did I choose? Not a single one. 
For those who don't know what the treatment options are, here are a few: 

Lupron: a shot that suppresses the signals from the pituitary gland in the brain to the ovaries that stimulate estrogen production. Lupron is also said to suppress the hormones that make endometriosis grow. This shot is usually administered once every three months for 6 months. This shot makes the menstrual cycle stop and makes the body go into a chemically induced menopause. By stopping the production of estrogen and eliminating any ovulation to take place, it is "supposed" to eliminate the painful symptoms and growth of endometriosis. This medication has COUNTLESS side effects, such as bone loss, extreme weight gain, hot flashes, mood swings, depression, etc. WHY ON EARTH WOULD I WANT TO TAKE THIS? Don't get me wrong, this medicine has helped some women out there, but I cannot justify putting my body through such adverse side effects with absolutely no guarantee that it will help. Plus it can only be taken for 6 months. I also forgot to mention that this medicine is also given to men with prostate cancer. No, gracias, Again, this is my opinion, and it is best to consult with your doctor on a treatment that is right for you. 

Birth Control Pills: Pretty self explanatory here. My dr specifically wanted to put me on Loestrin-24, a low dose bc pill. Again, I chose not to do it. I have to be one of the few girls out there that has never been on birth control. However, out of all the treatments out there, this one would be the one I would choose should I ever decide to. 

Mirena IUD: Again, pretty self explanatory. This is inserted into the cervix, releases hormones to stop ovulation and prevent pregnancy up to 5 years. Again, no thanks. 

Those three were the main treatment options that were offered. Possible surgeries down the road were also talked about. 

Again, these medicines can and have helped women out. However, these medicines have also made endometriosis worse for many women. A treatment option should not be worse than the actual cause of pain. 
Unfortunately, since endometriosis is different for every woman, it is unclear on how each one of our bodies will react to a certain medicine. Big womp. 

So what have I done to manage the pain? A lot of trial and error, for one. But I have also spent an immense amount of my time and energy on looking for natural, more holistic ways to deal with endometriosis. 

Here is what I have done (and have had success):

Acupuncture: I have been fortunate enough to work with my acupuncturist, Jenny, who is very knowledgeable about the disease. She has done a fabulous job at keeping me as pain free as a girl with endo can be. And trust me, the pain free days have outnumbered the pain ridden days. It did take some time to notice some results, but with continuous sessions and hope, I began to feel better. Check her blog out, Chicago Acupuncture. She frequently posts about how acupuncture can help with managing various conditions. Thank you, Jenny! 

Herbs: Jenny also put me on some herbs that helped tremendously with menstrual pain. After one month of taking them, my menstrual cycle was much more bearable and not as painful. In Chinese Medicine, Endo is described as a stagnation of the blood. When you think about it, it makes sense. All of the blood that is supposed to be released during menses gets rerouted elsewhere in our bodies. I take a combination of two different herbs (I will have to list the names of them at a later time since I do not have the bottles in front of me). 

Castor Oil Packs: This is one of my favorite treatments, and not just for Endo, but for muscle pains and aches. Jenny also introduced me to this and they have been a life saver. They are a bit tedious to prepare and can get a little messy, but they are well worth it. I first started using them in the beginning of August after I had a minor jet skiing accident. The accident itself wasn't so serious but it did aggravate my surgical sight, which caused excruciating pain. After only 3 days of using it, the pain subsided and I felt much better. I have read that continuous use of castor oil packs for up to 3 months can significantly help with endo pain. I just used a castor oil pack last week when my endo pain was flaring up. I am also an avid workout nut and certain exercises still aggravate my pelvic and abdomen area, so when I do feel any pain, I go straight to the castor oil pack and I feel 10 times better. 
-How to make a castor oil pack? It's pretty easy. Get a piece of flannel (organic, dye free is best) big enough to cover your abdomen/pelvic area (or whatever area you will be covering) and soak it in castor oil. It doesn't have to be drenched in it, just enough to cover the entire piece of flannel. Place the piece of flannel over your abdomen, use some plastic wrap to cover the flannel (to avoid stains) and place a heating pad over the plastic wrap/flannel. Leave it on for about an hour and repeat once a day. Make sure to use cold pressed castor oil. I buy all of my materials at Whole Foods. 

Pycnogenol: Pycnogenol is the brand name for an herbal extract derived from the bark of Pinus pinaster, a type of pine tree. The herb seems to have anti-inflammatory effects and antioxidant activity, which are said to help with endo pain. I have not tried this supplement yet, but will do so in the near future. 

Exercise: You're probably thinking, "I'm in pain, why would I want to exercise?" Those were my thoughts exactly after I had my surgery, but it has helped TREMENDOUSLY. I was a hardcore Yogi before my surgery, and that also helped with my endo pain, but I had to quit doing Yoga when the pain became too much to handle. Exercise balances out the production of estrogen our bodies make and can help with reducing endo and menstrual pain. A low impact exercise regimen is usually recommended to avoid causing further pain. I am a workout junkie, I advocate a healthy, active lifestyle, so get out the door and move your booty. I promise you'll feel better. 

Diet: This is a big one. I spent hours and hours reading about how our diet can provoke endo. After I had my surgery, I was pretty strict about what I ate. I stuck to lots of green leafy veggies (kale and spinach are my favorite), fruits, avoided red meat as much as I could, ate lots of fish and chicken, and reduced my caffeine intake. After doing all of that, I felt a lot better. Certain foods promote an increase amount of estrogen in our bodies, such as dairy. Now, I'm not going to lie, I didn't stick to this diet for very long. However, my actual diet isn't too far from this, but I love food way too much to give up everything. For example, dairy is something I have ALWAYS consumed on a daily basis. Now, I try to moderate how much I take. Caffeine is another one. I am a coffee addict. But, I don't drink as much as I used to. I stick to water (lots of it), organic milk, organic pomegranate juice (one of my all time favorites), and some lemon water from time to time. 

These are just some things that I have done to help manage my endo pain and in no way am I advocating that this is the "right" way. I simply want to offer as many tips as I can to my endo sisters to help them find any relief. 

This post was quite lengthy (I promise to not make my posts this long) but I wanted to thoroughly explain this topic. And to those who actually read the entire post, kudos to you! I hope I was able to help in some way. 

I welcome any comments regarding YOUR story and journey and would love to hear what treatments work for you. 

Much love and good night. 

Steph  

Hello, Friday.

friday friday friday


Happy Friday, amigos!

As promised, this is my attempt at keeping up with blogging. And let me just say that it's a little difficult posting this considering I am at work and my desk is completely visible by the entire office. Oh well.

Linking up with Erin this chilly Friday morning (love your blog, girl!).

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Dear CTA: Thank you for making my commute to work this morning much more tolerable than any other morning. I thank the 3-4 day weekend that most schools and jobs have (except for me. damn you private sector jobs). I very much appreciated not being stepped on, having armpits in my face, and listening to high schoolers complain.

Dear Chicago Marathon Runners: I will be volunteering this Sunday for the race and will be posted at one of the First Aid tents waiting to take care of your injuries. I promise to be as nice as I can considering I have to be there at 5 am.

Dear Fall: I'm not going to lie, I don't really like you. I don't like the brisk, cold air that so many other Chicagoans love. I prefer your smoldering heat and barely tolerable humidity. I am a summer baby and need heat and temperatures above 75 degrees to function properly. So I ask that you hurry up and do your thing so I can be on my way to wearing my booty shorts again.

Dear Lululemon: You will be the death of my bank account. I am addicted to your phenomenal workout clothes and amazingly comfortable hoodies, but I am not addicted to your insanely high prices. Tone it down a little.

Dear Coffee: I will ALWAYS love you.

Dear Joseph Gordon-Levitt: You have become my new obsession. I will find you and make you mine. Be ready.

Dear Next Thursday: Hurry up and get here. This girl needs to get paid so I can go get those bad ass boots from Steve Madden. Patience is not my virtue.

Dear New York Police Department: You are my next challenge. Expect my presence sometime soon.

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This weekend will be a sleepless weekend. I have big things happening on Saturday and as mentioned above, I will be volunteering at the Bank of America Chicago Marathon. I think I'm more excited for the free food, shirt and jacket that they will be giving out :)

Somewhere through out all of the chaos of this weekend, I hope to squeeze in some sleep and a good movie. There are so many movies coming out that I want to go see. Must make time. You can usually catch me at a coffee shop and/or theater on weekends. I'm an old lady at heart.

Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Steph <3


Thursday, October 4, 2012

Guess who's back...

Well, as I mentioned in my previous posts, I am terrible at keeping up with this. Unfortunately, I proved myself right. However, I vow to try a little harder to keep up with this. Considering my life has become BEYOND busy the last month, this will definitely become a challenge. But a challenge is what I like and a challenge is what I'll take.

So until the next post (I promise it'll be soon), I will spill my thoughts and get started on this bloggin' thing [again].

Besos xxx

Steph